Family Dysfunction

Hubby has been stressing over his parents lately.  There's been some problems with some of the relatives that is affecting them.  They're older and his dad has heart problems so he's worried that these issues are going to hurt them. 

It's all drama, all the time.  Total dysfunction.  We were supposed to go on vacation up there in a couple weeks but hubby is not too upset about not going now that he knows it's a war up there right now.  It makes me wonder how much his parents are giving up financially as well as mentally and physically for these relatives that can't seem to take care of themselves.  They're supposed to be enjoying their retirement.  I hope they're not selling their life insurance for seniors and stocks and stuff to take care of adults who won't take care of themselves. They've worked hard for all the investments they have.